Lorn feels special. This is my answer to worry. Feel special about something spectacular.

I am coming to realize (in both music history and everyday life) that people like to give titles to things in order to categorize them, to make them simpler and to be able to deal with things in black and white. But this isn't how the world works! Just about everything occurs in shades of gray. Lines are crossed one way and not another, or in both directions, or not at all. What's true for one person isn't necessarily true for another, but in order to talk about things with each other, we have to create some conventional standards. For understanding. You can't put limits on life.